Gay guide to dating
Each guy is at a different place in their gay maturity.
Though I respect that, I still want to find someone in a similar place of coming out.
Buzz Feed reached out to some of those gay twentysomethings to tell us some of their difficulties when trying to date.
You can be having a great conversation with a guy online, then, at the slightest suspicion that you are a total queen, you are ghosted. We just need to learn that some guys really are into Britney Spears while others really do love monster trucks, but that doesn't define what they can bring to dating or a relationship." —Jeremy, 22 "The biggest struggle of dating is the internal battle one undergoes when deciding if he wants an open, polyamorous, or monogamous relationship.To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.At least when I was a big guy, men were more interested in other aspects of me." —Erich, 24 "Gay apps usually come with some sort of sorting hat for your 'gay tribe.' It sucks that there is so much division within the gay community in that respect.As I lost more weight and gained muscle mass, I began to notice a change in my looks.I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.